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Hard Days

Challenges happen to keep you grounded. Different situations occur to make you realize that you are only a human being who has every possibility of making mistakes and every possibility of breaking down into pieces. We don't know when it will or if it will happen, but one thing is for sure, you are never ready. You are never ready until that certain moment passes and hits you right through your soul and the only way to get out of it is to think on what you should do next. We all know that people have different traits and different way of handling situations. People handle difficulties differently. There are people who become overly defensive in their situation, always looking for someone to defend them. There are people who just keep on going with life like as if their care in the world is gone (forever). There are people who just keep quiet and suck it all in and feel the pain all by themselves and just feel down or empty about life during those days and there are people who l

How Far is a Long Distance Relationship

Most of the people gives a big "NO-NO" on the idea of long distance relationships. Some of them would say it doesn't work, some of them would say it's okay from the start and eventually everyday gets old and gets boring until a day comes that one of them just stops.  I've heard once in a video-rticle that "Long distance relationship doesn't work, unless, it does." It makes sense right? It won't work if the people involved eventually becomes uncommitted with all the committed things they told one another in the beginning. For example, at the start it would be "message me always, let's Skype, let's Facetime, I'll wake you up and you wake me up, I'll wait for you before I sleep, I'll see you soon, I'll be there just a few months from now" especially for long distance relationship that has time zone boundaries. It's frustrating, it's hard, but at the beginning you are willing to give your all, sacrifice yo

When Good Days Come

Today is very unusual for me since I started in this project. I've never been this happy. Well actually, good thoughts just kept on coming into my mind and I was happy all day.  This morning as I rode my grab car I wasn't thinking of any consequences. Usually, in the morning, around 7AM I already start having thoughts on what I would do if come into the office late, but it was amusing how steady I was just waiting to arrive. I was ahead of time (yey). I was able to finish what I needed to finish (per my own timetable). I was able to do other things or favors from people. Lastly, I was able to meet new people who I can share joy with during dinner.  It's amazing how a day goes by without any challenges, any heartaches or lowly sorrows. At least for this day, I was able to realize that good days come and go and when they are there just enjoy it, feel that rhythm and keep on.  Goodnight!